Allegra Stein
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Inside my own YNAB budget: the March envelope (screenshot included!)
July 4 Reader, A bit of context: March is a big birthday month around here. My son, father-in-law, nephew, best friend, and I all have birthdays. That means March = more gifts, more parties, more food, and more spending. This past March, I overspent in both my Gifts and Groceries envelopes, soI had to shuffle money out of other categories to cover it. When something like this happens - an annual expense catches me off guard - I create a new envelope for next year. That way, I can start...
Envelope budgeting and why it's totally awesome
June 30 Reader, Envelope budgeting is not a new idea. Before digital banking, people would cash their paychecks and divide the money into actual envelopes - groceries, rent, entertainment, etc. Once an envelope was empty, that was it. You were done spending in that category (unless you chose to take money from another envelope to refill it.) It was simple, tangible, and visual. It brought people in touch with the finitude of their money, which most of us still deal with, even if we choose not...
Not that kind of budgeting
June 29 Reader, A lot of people who say they have a budget mean something like,“I keep an eye on our bills, make sure we’re not spending more than we earn, and pay off the credit card each month. It runs in the background, and it works. We’re good.” And while this is a solid place to be, but it's not the kind of budgeting I teach. What I teach is a zero-based, digital envelope system. Zero-based just means that when money comes in, you give every dollar a job by assigning it to an envelope...
You’re not behind and you're not too late
March 27, 2025 Reader, It’s really important that you hear this: It’s never too late to start looking at your money. It doesn’t matter how old you are. It doesn’t matter if your partner has always "handled the finances." It doesn’t matter if you haven’t opened your credit card statement in months. It doesn’t matter if you used to have a high-paying job and now you don’t (or the other way around). It doesn’t matter if you’re embarrassed by your Amazon order history. It doesn’t matter if you’ve...
It’s just about the money you have today
March 26, 2025 Reader, Here’s the simplest way I think about budgeting: Make a plan for the money you have today. Stick it in envelopes to reflect that plan (I use a digital envelope system). Spend from your envelopes. That’s it. That's my approach. I know that “budgeting” means a lot of things to a lot of people. Some focus on tracking every dollar you’ve ever spent. Others are all about forecasting what you might earn and spend down the line. Those are all valid, just not the one I’m...
Don't budget future paychecks - a true story.
March 24, 2025 Reader, A colleague of mine - let’s call her Sara - is a freelancer who’s been helping a friend, Molly, update her website. They’ve worked together for years, and Molly pays Sara the same amount every month to keep things running. But this past February, Molly’s check bounced. Sara reached out, and Molly assured her she’d send the payment electronically. Rather than wait for the money to arrive, Sara went ahead and added it to her budget, assigning those dollars to her...
You don't have to do anything.
March 23, 2025 Reader, It's easy to think that if we’re not totally dialed in with our money, it means we’re doing something wrong or need to change right now. I hope that my energy and enthusiasm about all of this isn't fueling a sense of "should". If anything, I simply hope that how much I can geek out about this stuff leaves you a tiny bit more curious that you were before. Because sometimes, we’re managing so many other complex parts of life - relationships, work, health, caregiving -...
What I mean by "budgeting"
March 22, 2025 Reader, I want to be share more about what I mean when I talk about budgeting, because I know that word carries a lot of baggage. For a lot of people, budgeting means trying to predict the future:“I’ll earn this much, so I’ll spend this much.” Considered this way, it's not uncommon to wonder, “how can I budget if don’t know how much I'm going to make each month?” This is a very common question, especially if you're a soloist and run your own business. Most budgeting advice...
"Allegra, you’re great…but this is boring."
March 20, 2025 Reader, Talking about budgeting is sooo boring, amirite? Unless you’re me. I could geek out about this stuff all day. Do you know how giddy I get when someone sends me a question about spending, or YNAB, or how to plan their money toward a goal? (Seriously. Send me all the questions!) But I know I’m the exception. For a lot of people, “budgeting” lives in the same category as going to the dentist or watching paint dry (though you might love those things, too.) I know this might...
Why do credit cards just feel like part of life now?
March 19, 2025 Reader, I totally get it. Debt can create opportunity. It helps us go to school.Buy homes.Get the car that takes us where we need to go. Credit can be a useful tool, and sometimes it’s the only way to meet basic needs. I respect that. But somewhere along the way, debt stopped being about those big, intentional choices and crept into our everyday spending. We’re not really paying in the moment anymore. We’re borrowing, covering last week’s coffee, groceries, and Amazon cart with...
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